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if someone can try my method, maybe with some changes, and tell me how it goes, i would appreciate it, as i think i could maybe write it down and share it
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@Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) Are you a tulpa or a headmate? I could never really tell
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 1/30/2023 11:35 PM
Yeah, I talk for my whole system though.
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And what was your journey going through tulpamancy?
11:36 PM
Ahh ok thrn
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
Yeah, I talk for my whole system though.
How many people are in your system?
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Rxspty
How many people are in your system?
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 1/30/2023 11:38 PM
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Rxspty
And what was your journey going through tulpamancy?
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 1/30/2023 11:38 PM
Well, we started doing this fundamentally because we wanted to know how it felt, it was pure curiosity.
11:39 PM
In a week or so we had a decently developed tulpa.
11:39 PM
And some time later i was created almost instantly.
11:39 PM
You will have to make a more specific question if you want to know something else.
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No, it's fine
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
Well, we started doing this fundamentally because we wanted to know how it felt, it was pure curiosity.
Well that's new
11:44 PM
I've never heard of people making headmates out of pure curiousity
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 1/30/2023 11:46 PM
Host was pretty confident that the phenomenon was real because it would be weird that so many people claimed stuff like that, so we started mostly just to test how far it would go.
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Ahh, makes sense
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Chiaroscuro 2/3/2023 7:52 PM
Tulpas from a maladaptive daydreaming perspective: https://youtu.be/i7bzSQLM-Jk Do you all think she's describing tulpamancy accurately? (edited)
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everyone's experience of tulpamancy is different but some of them surely suffer from maladaptive daydreaming, but it's a separate thing
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Chiaroscuro 2/3/2023 7:58 PM
Yes, that's what she says. She says sometimes their 'paras' from the dreams become so real they become tulpas, which is a very different procces for someone who is not a maladaptive daydreamer and chooses to make a tulpa and actually had to do the work of creating them
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She wraps up saying tulpamancy can't be a closed practice because it happens naturally in the brain... that it's part of a mental illness...
8:47 PM
The information here is definitely a mixed bag
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 8:58 PM
I always hate the "it happens naturally therefore ... " argument.
8:58 PM
Natural is not a defined thing. Everything we exeperience is something that happens naturally on the brain.
8:59 PM
We define what a mental illness is and it requires distress, and tulpamancy doesnt check that box for me... so tulpamancy itself is not a mental illness.
9:00 PM
Plurality does constitute a part of many disorders but that doesnt mean that it is one or that it necesarilly implies one.
9:01 PM
All arguments based on "naturality" are allways wrong.
9:02 PM
The point trying to be made might be correct but the argument is not.
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Chiaroscuro
Tulpas from a maladaptive daydreaming perspective: https://youtu.be/i7bzSQLM-Jk Do you all think she's describing tulpamancy accurately? (edited)
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:08 PM
Also, the fact that you "cannot control" a character in a daydream only proves dissociation wich is not the only requisite for a tulpa to be a tulpa.
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Well, I agree that tulpamancy isn't a closed practice, because anyone can think about a person in their head until they become what we call a tulpa. I just don't agree with her statement that "it's not a closed practice, it's a mental illness"
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Aya
Well, I agree that tulpamancy isn't a closed practice, because anyone can think about a person in their head until they become what we call a tulpa. I just don't agree with her statement that "it's not a closed practice, it's a mental illness"
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:31 PM
Everyone can do any practice independently by pure chance so no practice is a closed practice.
9:31 PM
But being natural has nothing to do about it.
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I don't disagree but I'm not sure I understand. What would you consider natural?
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:34 PM
Thats the problem. I dont see a consistent meaning for that word.
9:35 PM
All arguments based on something being natural are flawed because the definition of natural is flawed (and often because the underlaying logic of the argument is just wanting that thing to be true). (edited)
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:36 PM
Being natural doesnt directly prove any other fact to me.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 2/3/2023 9:37 PM
wow you are slowly understanding the uselessness of labels
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:37 PM
Often the argument is "natural therefore good" but thats not always the case such as in this video, i just dont understand the logic step done to conclude natural therefore mental illness.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧)
wow you are slowly understanding the uselessness of labels
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:38 PM
They are useful to convey meaning in a lot of cases. The label natural is not. At least not used to argue in favor/against something. (edited)
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TiCtAc(✧×✧)
wow you are slowly understanding the uselessness of labels
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:40 PM
Labels simplify the world into a "knowledge graph" or a logic construct.
9:42 PM
Which might be problematic but is also very useful as this allows us to transfer incredible ammounts of information in very few words since this logic construct is highly consistent across persons. That is to say "we work in shared assumptions therefore information exchange is very efficient". (edited)
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 2/3/2023 9:42 PM
that's too many words, sorry
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:42 PM
True!
9:43 PM
Let me simplify it: i say word and u understand!
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Hahahha.
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TiCtAc(✧×✧) BOT 2/3/2023 9:44 PM
now i got it!
9:46 PM
so efficient
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:46 PM
See!
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KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 2/3/2023 9:55 PM
you should see, how efficient that is!
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/3/2023 9:55 PM
What do you mean?
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KiTTiKaTTy( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧
you should see, how efficient that is!
So true
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About this pendulum stuff: https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431895537978048535/796424910867791872 Isn't it better to teach people that tulpamancy isn't just about dissociation rather than simply showing them how to dissociate without even mentioning that?
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Tulpamancy is about getting the feel for things which can be confusing for people when they approach it logically, pendulum makes you get the instant feel for something you are working towards
11:36 PM
i don’t think people need to know if it’s about this or that
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/4/2023 11:39 PM
Ive actually tried it just to test... For me either i realize im doing it or it just keeps spinning in circles... But it might be because i know what the thing is about...
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pendulum is mostly about imposing presence
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し)
Ive actually tried it just to test... For me either i realize im doing it or it just keeps spinning in circles... But it might be because i know what the thing is about...
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/4/2023 11:40 PM
I actually feel my head trying to lie to itself and say "thats not me".
11:41 PM
I tried for less than a minute so it might be that too.
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you seem to have rushed it
11:42 PM
so i’m not surprised you didn’t get much results from it
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/4/2023 11:43 PM
I might try later again if it piques my interest enough.
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if you do just remember to not try to analyse it, just focus on the feel
11:46 PM
just relac and pay attention to the pendulum
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Why not analyse it?
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Alejandro
Why not analyse it?
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/4/2023 11:50 PM
If you overanalize whats happening you will give it any explanation. And any is more reasonable than "i felt a pressence". (edited)
11:51 PM
Unless yoy believe in metaphysical stuff in which i dont.
11:51 PM
You also dont need to actually give the explanation that it was actually a presence, you just need to feel it was and dont believe anything at all.
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Tulpamancy is about getting the feel for things which can be confusing for people when they approach it logically, pendulum makes you get the instant feel for something you are working towards
@Leiko (@KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk) - jump We still don't understand the goal of it. What you mean by "Tulpaancy is about getting a feel for things"?
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Leiko
if you do just remember to not try to analyse it, just focus on the feel
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/4/2023 11:59 PM
Can confirm it works...
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Got a better pendulum by using a nut in a string.
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Its subtle though. Its not that it moves exactly how you ask, its also about how you interpret subtle random changes in the movement. (edited)
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glad to hear it worked for you
12:15 AM
We still don't understand the goal of it. What you mean by "Tulpaancy is about getting a feel for things"?
@Alexia (@Alejandro) - jump tulpamancy is more emotional/intuitive process rather than intellectual, it’s emotional intelligence that is involved rather than the logical one
12:16 AM
sure it’s fine to analyse it but i would leave it for later because logic gets on the way in tulpamancy
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Leiko
glad to hear it worked for you
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/5/2023 12:18 AM
Can add it to your list of testimonials 😛
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sure it’s fine to analyse it but i would leave it for later because logic gets on the way in tulpamancy
@Leiko (@KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk) - jump How does it get in the way?
12:23 AM
Or do you mean that tulpamancers get logical understanding by the way, later?
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gets in the way when you end up in an analysis paralysis before you get the feel of how tulpamancy works. i don’t think there is anything wrong with using logic later on
12:25 AM
Can add it to your list of testimonials 😛
@Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) - jump haha
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I agree that overthinking might paralyze people's progress. But it doesn't mean that logical understanding gets in the way.
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Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 2/5/2023 12:30 AM
I dont think any logic helps in the process either.
12:31 AM
Maybe it does for someone trying to teach other, but not for the one learning.
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i agree with destin, logical understanding gets on the way if the practice is about being rather than than thinking
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I don't know. As a skeptic and an overthinker, I don't think the pendulum would have helped me at all. I'd just conclude, it's micromovements and no reason to think my tulpa is communicating through that
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did you try it?
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half of the reactions i get is "it won't work i will know it's me" and then people that actually try it get surprised
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My tulpas will just talk to me if I try 😅
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At this point
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haha nooo
1:02 AM
i think if you try you will understand why it help
1:02 AM
it won't be your tulpa
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I don't know if what happens for you, happens for everyone
1:04 AM
I've tried asking a pendulum questions in the past, and observed how it worked
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well i have no intention of convincing you to try it in this context, but until you try your scepticism is unfounded
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i'm just glad it helps 100% people i showed it to
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within minutes
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that's way better result than guides online
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I mean, I'm still not clear on what the exercise is supposed to do
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do you know people that read all the guides but still don't have any progress and they don't understand what they are supposed to do?
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they do the list of traits they do everything and nothing works
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